What do I do if there’s foreskin?
Foreskin = a thin piece of skin that covers the head of the penis. Sometimes, a baby’s parents decide to remove that flap — aka circumcise them.
If that skin is left intact, it can be retracted down the base of the penis, exposing the mushroom-like, oh-so-sensitive penis head beneath.
“Some people will enjoy having their foreskin used as part of the hand job to add a layer of texture, warmth, and wetness,” says Luna Matatas, sexuality, body, confidence, and kink educator and creator of Peg The Patriarchy.
To find out what your partner likes, ask!
How hard is too hard of a grip?
Generally, you want to start loose and increase grip as you go (up to a point!).
But every penis owner prefers something different. So, grip your partner’s cock, then ask:
“Why don’t you put your hand over mine and show me how tight you like it?”
“Tell me when you like the tightness of my grip.”